Girls Only: I wish i was a girl So badly what are your thoughts on this dont be afraid to give or long answer?

Question

Girls clothes are so much better. Girls are easier to talk to (not the bitchy ones for some reason I seem to be meet the nice girls I can tell which ones are bitchy). I have more in common with them but society would find it weird for me to talk about that stuff. I would love dresses skirts girls clothes and make up. I have a friendly type of personality which sometimes guys might be like you might be to friendly when that's what girls are sometimes. I just think I would be better off as a girl. Like for example a girl who is shy might be considered cute but a guy who is shy might be considered weird. Just the sterotyping. I know girls go through a lot but I know in the long run I would rather be a girl. Id probably also would of been loved by my parents more to because my dad did not raise me at all really ignored me until I was like 16 or 17 so never taught me sports I starting teaching myself sports at 18 now 21. My mom was always in my life and if I was a girl she could of taught me stuff from her experience and I think she would of liked and I would of liked the advice. I wouldn't have even minded if my dad didn't teach me anything because it does not matter if a girl is athletic or not.

SO are my feelings vaild please do not do a BE You if you want to be a girl do it type answers what do you think and what are your thoughts? I even like shows like Pretty Little Liars and chick flicks sometimes to so what are your thoughts if you could in a long detailed answer?

Answer 1

I would totally be your best friend. Haha that's totally cool you want to be a girl! Other than the periods, it's pretty awesome. There will always be other people who stereotype or think you're weird or just plain hate you for no reason. Pretty Little Liars is MY show. I'm just sad I have to wait till June for season 5 -___- Dammit.



I think it kind of makes sense that you feel this way since you were brought up by your mom and all. It's normal. People are people. Don't worry about it. If you want to be around that stuff, you should look into becoming a fashion designer or a makeup artist or something along those lines. That'd be something that fits into your interests. =)

Answer 2

There are no limits to what you can do, be, or have except the limits you place on your own thinking and your own imagination. The biggest enemies you will ever face are your own doubts and your fear of failure. These are usually negative beliefs, not necessarily based on fact that you have accepted over the years until you no longer question them.



Remember the rule: It doesn’t matter where you’re coming from; all that really matters is where you’re going.



And Your thoughts on life and your beliefs actually create your realities, and every belief you have about yourself you learned, starting in infancy. The amazing thing is that most of the negative or self-limiting beliefs and doubts that interfere with your happiness and success are not based on fact or reality at all. When you begin to question your self-limiting beliefs and develop beliefs consistent with the incredible person you really are, your life will begin to change almost immediately.You have the capability to create and live your life as you desire and you have unlimited potential to accomplish this. You could not use your entire potential if you lived one hundred lifetimes. No matter what you have accomplished up to now, it is merely a hint of what is truly possible for you. And the more of your natural talents and abilities you develop in the present, the more of your potential you can develop in the future.



Hope this helped in some way :) And as long as your happy, who cares what other people think? After all, life is life, it will end and all that matters is that you are yourself.

Answer 3

I heard this lady on the radio the other day, and she spoke SO clearly about her feelings growing up, and it may help you to work out what you want to do. I know you need to speak to a counsellor about your feelings and maybe start on the way towards changing your gender.. I won't pretend I know a lot about it, but I know it IS a valid situation, and I wish you all the best.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikki_Sinclaire



http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p01vgr0y ( I think this one is a general discussion, but Nikki sinclaire features in it, and I think this was the broadcast I first heard her in)

Answer 4

Honestly I like being a girl. The only thing I hate is the pregnancies and the periods. Other thanthat in cool

Answer 5

I believe that there is nothing wrong with that because there are other people in the world who feel the same way you do. If you want to become a girl, no one is stopping you.

Answer 6

Your feelings are absolutely valid. I know a lot of people who feel this way. Much of the world won't understand what your feeling, but their not you so it doesn't really matter.

Answer 7

Seriously, you need help. This isn't normal.